Hi, I (27F) am a bisexual. I had a new friend, we meet with her every week or so. And i am getting to that i have a crush on her or feelings somehow. She told me one time that she is straight. And i am afraid that if i contiune to meet with her she will somehow sense that and that will ruin our friendship. Our friendship very important for me and i don’t wanna ruin it. I know you can say that i am 27 years old grown woman, but i only had one relationship and it was with a guy. When we arrange a meeting i can’t stop myself from thinking her, and this really scares me. And i can’t talk about this with my sisters or other friends because i am afraid that they will make fun of me, that i am “that type” girl, who falls to her straight friend, my sister already teasing me that she is my girlfriend, because i am kinda introvert and meeting with someone every week is big thing for me. What do you recomend, should i meet with her less frequenly? Yesterday she ask me that if she can to my house, but i got other thing and delayed it.
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Crushes fade eventually.
You probably have a crush on her cause she’s the only person you’re spending time with. Try to make more friends and spend time with other people and see how you feel.