Hiya š
This is one of my rough spots. I find it hard to move around at a party type situation. And I donāt HAVE to do that but say I get stuck in a dull convo or say I like the convo but want to talk to more people & stay in touch with that person, has anyone got any tips? I feel really rude doing it.
I heard some people at an event once say āNice talking to you. Iām gonna go mingleā and I felt free to do that myself. I had met someone to do that WITH so that was great. But this is gonna be me going alone – meet up event lots of people potentially any tips? I tend to get stuck where Iām sitting?
Which doesnāt have to be bad if Iām clicking with people but if Iām not or I wanna meet more people there, any tips on how?
Itās the exiting the convo thatās the hardest part of that for me?? Thanks in advance!
Also, if I DO want to do a number or social media swap with someone after a good convo – cos if you donāt act that fast on meet-up often you never see them again! – how can I do this more easily Iāve rarely done it also how do I know I wonāt regret it even if they agree that there a decent person? I have a fear of doing that & then regretting it. And with WhatsApp I get stuck having their profile photos on my phone forever unless they block me no matter WHAT happens & that makes me reluctant too š
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I usually go āexcuse me, Iām going to get a drinkā
“Hey, it’s been GREAT talking with you, I gotta mingle.”
It’s literally a perfect reason to excuse yourself.