Hi! First of all I’m already over 21 but I really need help and there’s no one who can help me
Basically I (F) live in a small town where everyone knows everyone.
Long story short everyone I know thinks I have a large sexual life, and that I know a lot of stuff because of the amount of intimacy I’ve had.
The fun part is that I’m literally a virgin who knows all of that stuff bc I did read it on middle school. Even though I tried to say that I have never had sex before nobody believe me.
My problem comes here, a guy and I decided to have some “”Netflix and chill”” at his place, and even though it’s my first time, I want it to be good, not perfect, just good haha
I was wondering if I could get some advice from someone who have experience, like, how to do a bj, or make him cum? :((
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please dont do that to yourself
Don’t lie.
Be honest,
But there are great sex coaches on YouTube.
Honesty is everything. Be honest with him, he’ll apprechiate both you and your honesty more. And if he doesn’t – he isn’t the right one for you.
bad idea
If you want it to be good, then tell the truth.
Progressing gently and gradually and experimenting will lead to a lot more fun than biting off more than you can chew and finding out you’ve gone beyond your limits in a way that’s painful or uncomfortable and means sex needs to just stop.