I really thought he was my soulmate, we dated for three months and he always had time for me.
We broke up and then since May he will sometimes message me and suggest catching up “next week”, “after the school holidays”, “after you get back from vacation” etc. This has been going on since May and we still haven’t seen each other because he’s “too busy”.
I was recently diagnosed with autism which
essentially means I’m gullible and believes everything someone says.
We had plans to meet a few times on a certain date but it would always be interrupted by a “valid” reason and so the “next week” would start again.
I’m a very easy going person, but it has left me feeling very vulnerable and hurt and depressed that someone would do that too me, especially because I am such a sweet person.
How do I get over this? I took a step toward a full cut of the relationship today because I asked if he wanted to catch up yesterday and today after not hearing a response I told him not to message me again.
TD/LR: Recent autistic diagnosis – how to get over an ex who has been leading me on for six months?
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first step: block him