We are together since 9 months ago and i didn’t go to her place first 2 dates after she asked, because i wanted to see her again and not to have a one night stand with her. We move to gether after 4 months and now got a new lux apartment with all the new furnitures.
I’m so energetic and try to laugh all the time and give her some positive energy and motivation.
She is on depression medications (although she really doesn’t need them like before). She is always tired, feeling lazy, wants to just lay and watch netflix serials. Sometimes when she is sick or tired, she sleeps all day and can sleep at night better and faster than me.
I tried pushing her going to the gym, being more active, going on date, i tell her more than once a day that she is beautiful or sexy, kiss her, cuddle, buy her flowers, make her breakfast, lunch, dinner (when i have time). She starts everything so good and after a while starts to be just like how she used to be, she loses weight 2 kilos and starts eating suger and fat again until i tell her again that she should be careful with her health…
I told her at the beginning of the relationship that not just for beauty, also for health, it’s really important to me to have a gf or wife who would be able to walk with me, carry our future dog or baby, and not having lots of problems causing with fat and she agreed and said that it is important and she would try to lose weight to get to a norm.
Sex? We have like once a month and everytime i should ask indirectly several times after a lot of cuddling and talking and kissing, till she once says that she wants sex!
I really don’t like to leave her and hope we could change the situation…
**Tl;dr: Are the anti-depression medications so bad that they cause this situation or is it just her being her and i should deal with it?**