I’ve matched with two guys at the same time and we met up at the same time (met one guy on Saturday and the other on Monday). I had a great first date with both. Guy A we had 2 more dates since and Guy B we had a second date a week later.
Today I had my second date with Guy B. Anyway, he could tell I was being off today and I then told him I didn’t see a future even though we kissed. I felt I was misleading him and he said he liked me/ found me attractive..
I’m new to dating so is this normal?! Do people date two people at the same time?
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it’s not bad if you’re single but i wouldn’t let them know unless they ask and tell them how you figured it’s okay because you’re not in a relationship yet. don’t let them think you’re being loyal to them if you’re not
btw you’re allowed to date more than two people until you figure out which one you really like or until one asks you out and you say yes (if that’s what you want). it’s definitely normal and nothing to feel bad about
I don’t really like treating people like options, so I tell people that
I just had a girl I was talking to call it off cause she didn’t want to date multiple people. I feel like shit not being good enough but it’s probably better than being led on for longer.
That’s why it called dating, not a relationship. It’s fine as long as you’re not misleading any of them.
whos life is it neway
Normal. You did the ethical thing when you communicated that you didn’t see a future as soon as you realized it.
All good.
I personally wouldn’t date more than one person at a time, and I wouldn’t like the person I was dating to be dating multiple other people.
But in saying that, this is a personal preference and I don’t go around looking down on people that do or think it’s wrong.
Dating/seeing more than one person at once is not an issue…but sleeping with them IS. If you plan on dating more than one man/woman make it known and don’t sleep with anyone until you choose