I had never done it before. Two questions:

1. What does a woman feel when you go in through the back door?
2. The opening is tighter but the rest seems… empty. Is it normal?

36 comments

  1. You’re gonna need a woman to answer question 1 but for question 2, yes that’s normal. Kinda like you’re fucking a donut

  2. Does she enjoy it and maybe orgasm? If so, then do it for her benefit and then move back to PIV or oral or whatever for your enjoyment, after safely cleaning up of course.

    My wife really enjoys anal and while she is tighter than the void you talk about, it is a different feeling than PIV or oral which is tighter. She really loves having a strong orgasm from anal and switch to have more from PIV. She is always good finishing me in a variety of ways to ensure I am satisfied.

    She can try to squeeze her anal muscles while you’re in, but this may be felt mostly near the entrance and might hurt for you as those muscles are strong.

  3. For a woman: it feels intense. Not painful but intense. And depending on the size of what you’re putting in and how often it happens it can be many different sensations.

    Some may feel like they have to poop or that it feels wrong. It’s all individual just like PIV sex.

  4. 1. No idea.
    2. I like how it takes some time to build up. It takes way more time to work up speed than in her vagina, a lot more. Once she gets into it and it’s going well, it’s like a vagina and you can go full speed. We don’t do it often, but it’s insanely hot when we do.

  5. Try doing it in missionary position. This makes your cock go in at an angle so it rubs against the back wall of her rectum. Much better than doggy.

  6. I can not get over the donut comment.. but as for nr. 2 (pun intended), try with less lube? I know the standard is so recommended copious amounts of lube, but aive done it sometimes only with the lube naturally available in the surrounding bodily areas and it work just fine. Felt nothing like a donut, albeit perhaps not as tight as a vagina either

  12. You don’t have to like it, also I’d find it pretty concerning if she kept asking you to the point you gave in if you said no all those times. That sounds like coercion

  13. 2. Yes. Normal

    But try different positions, there is quite the difference I think. Reverse cowgirl is my favourite ( I’m the guy )

  15. My favorite fun extra spicy 🌶️ sexy thing to do when we do anal is DP with a dildo.
    My husband has always preferred my pussy over my ass because he said the sane thing it’s like after you get past the entrance… it’s an open space unlike my pussy which wraps around his cock… so this past year I was feeling adventurous and fantasizing about DP ( we have been together for 17 years ) I don’t think we would be comfortable enough to do it in real life but to play along with my fantasy… my husband was in my ass and he added a dildo to my pussy… i added a vibrator to my clit as well. I came so fucking hard and so did he … now he wants it all the time like that .. he says it feels so amazing with something extra inside me. 😉

  16. 1.
    Just felt like I really had to poop the whole time. I don’t like it and don’t get the hubbub 🤷‍♀️

  17. It’s a take it or leave it for me, although that taboo feeling is hot for both of us. My partner cums quicker from anal than piv. Missionary on the edge of the bed is her fave.

  18. 1. There are a lot of nerve endings in that area, and everyone is wired differently. I’ve had partners who only orgasm from penetrative sex anally and not from PIV.
    2. Normal – Yes. Anal = small door large room. Vagina = large door small room.

    Anal sex is amazing, and has a certain taboo quality. Don’t give up too early on your new partner, it takes a lot of courage to open up about that. Let her know that you enjoy satisfying her needs, and love fucking her ass, but it’s not an act that brings you to orgasm.

    Condoms and some experience make for easy transition to PIV.

  19. 1. There are a lot of nerve endings in that area, and everyone is wired differently. I’ve had partners who only orgasm from penetrative sex anally and not from PIV.
    2. Normal – Yes. Anal = small door large room. Vagina = large door small room.

    Anal sex is amazing, and has a certain taboo quality. Don’t give up too early on your new partner, it takes a lot of courage to open up about that. Let her know that you enjoy satisfying her needs, and love fucking her ass, but it’s not an act that brings you to orgasm.

    Condoms and some experience make for easy transition to PIV.

  20. I dont know how to explain how it feels as a woman. But definitely not empty. It’s way more sensitive than my vag that’s for sure lol. If I have a big guy in there it feels full. Like too full. So midsized with girth is best. Yes the entry is a bit tight, but it is tight past there too to me anyway so it slowly opens up. And there’s a spot you get to where, once you get there I lose my shit and you can pretty much do what you want to me 🫠🫠🫠🤭🤭🤭

  21. Try different positions. I’ve definitely felt many different sensations with my wife depending on the position, so have some fun experimenting

  22. I don’t know how you feel a void. Make sure you use some lube so it’s not painful for you both and then have fun!

  23. Yes, the opening is tighter and the rest of it feels big and spacious; that’s just how it is. It makes sense if you think about how the anus and rectum work.

    As for what it feels like, probably the best way to figure that out is to experiment with some solo anal play yourself, with fingers. You won’t know exactly what it is like if you have male anatomy but it is still pretty similar.

    There is not really much sensation on the inside of the rectum, but you can hit the erogenous zones on the front of the body if you angle the right way, like the g-spot/a-spot, whatever you call it. Usually, the best way to give the bottoming partner the most pleasure in anal is by hitting those spots. You can experiment with positions and angles and communicate with your partner until you figure it out! But it sounds like your partner is already enjoying it so that’s great.

    It’s okay if you can’t finish, you can always do it as something to please your partner and then switch to another activity to finish. Just make sure if you switch to PIV sex after anal sex to either change the condom or wash up as there are some health risks from going from anal to vaginal penetration, such as causing a UTI.

  24. 1. If im pleasuring myself there, its amazing. If im with a man, I freak out. Ive never been with someone that makes me feel safe enough to fully relax

  25. We usually use a vibrator which makes it more enjoyable for her/makes her orgasm like crazy which generally in turn makes me bust. However she can have orgasms from anal without the vibrator which is insanely hot and will 1000% make me blow. Different for everyone though, I’m a huge people pleaser and she’s a squirter which makes the whole thing that much more beautifully dramatic.

  26. If you feel a void and you are sure you are in her anus. She might have air trapped. No not a methane bubble but air that has gotten trapped. You can use a lubricated finger to release the air. Make sure you are no going all the way out and getting air in. Most of the time it is very tight. Does she use a large dildo before or fisting? This can make a void. Just ask her. If she likes anal that much you need to know so you can make her happy. Maybe fisting and dildo after your penis. Good luck.

  28. It’s a lot more pressure and fullness feeling. It’s just like a more fuller but powerful feeling versus vaginal.

  29. I lay on my side and he is on his knees. I can feel the dick hitting, what I think is, my uterus.

  30. You’re missing engagement of the biggest sexual organ–your brain. People don’t generally do anal for the feeling alone, they do it because they have fantasies around it.

    “I’m in this woman’s butt and it feels so good because…

    – It’s a sign of her submission to me; I own all of her holes and I love reminding her of it.”
    – It’s degrading. This hole is dirty and shouldn’t be used for sex, but I’m using it to cum.”
    – It’s a sign of her love. This is her most private spot and she’s giving it to me.”

    Or some combination/other reason(s).

    If you don’t have any fantasies like that, anal will never feel as good as vaginal sex for you, and that’s okay. Do what feels good for both of you.

  32. For me it give a feeling of fullness, and it stimulate the anus and the vaginal canal/inner part of the clitoris through the other side.

  33. Yeah no it’s kinda like fucking a donut. I’m a guy and I only feel it going in and on my G spot.

  34. Personally it feels great when you hit my gspot and aspot through the wall between my vagina and ass. It does open up a bit, but it just kind of adds to the friction feeling at the sphincter area. There’s so many nerves in there

  35. A a guy who performs Vaginal to analyse, yes it feels very different. The Vagina hugs the penis perfectly, the cervix stimulates the head, and the pelvic muscles contract up and down the shaft.
    Anal on the other hand, the rectum acts as a sleeve and the colon feels hollow and open around the head. My wife loves anal so I put up with it but it isn’t my preference.

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