She will make it seem like we have a future together, she will be excited to mention activities we will do together etc but then when she is sober it’s like she’s gone back to cold

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  1. Because alcohol reduces inhibitions. She may have some anxiety or depression when she’s sober and it’s released a bit when she’s drunk

  2. I’m no mind reader but I do this sometimes. It’s when a really like a guy but I’m afraid that he doesn’t like me back. So when I’m drunk my impulse control goes down and I get honest but then when I’m sober, I feel really embarrassed and act cold to cover up my emotions because I’m afraid he’ll get scared and run away or just embarrassed.

    It could be that ^ or maybe simply she’s just drunk and wanting attention.

    If you like it & like her, you need to take the risk and reassure her. You have to tell her you like the things she says when she’s drunk and ask her if she really means it or if she was just drunk and talking nonsense.

  3. Cuz she wants to keep the door of seeing you open without taking it further into something more serious. Responding with a yes means she has to move differently being in a relationship ship, saying no means she doesn’t get to see you anymore

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