We met at a pool party then went on a date week later
– Drove 40min to see her
– Had a drink (She was very chatty for 2 hours)
– I was about to kiss her outside my car, but then I turned and i said nevermind (She did not give any hints at all that she was down)
– She gets in the car and kinda mocks funnily “Nevermind?! Nevermind?! So then i kissed in my car (She did not move a muscle, just completely still)
– Went back to her place (she took the parking pass with her so I probably read too much into that.)
– We sat on the couch, made out a little, then I left (again completely still, even lips. Does that me she’s just letting me continue?)
– Her roommate was in a separate room
I think I just was just confused that she did not move at all when kissing, zero reaction.
I hope I’m not an idiot but I probably am…lesson learned if so
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
Edit – Detail about outside car and Nevermind
Edit2 – Detail about chatty
6 comments
Why would you have sex? Is that a given?
Sounds like you don’t really like kissing her, and/or you’re not sure if she enjoyed kissing you?
That doesn’t make you an idiot — this sounds like just a date that didn’t pan out.
So you text her “it was nice seeing you again but I didn’t really feel we shared chemistry” etc. and move on with your life.
Youre def wrong for thinking an invitation to one’s home equates to sex. **stop that**
sounds like she felt no chemistry. Kind of sounds like you didn’t either. I know it reallllly doesn’t seem like it right now, but shitty sex is worse than no sex.
If she just sat still when you kissed her, she didn’t want to kiss you and you should have stopped.
Wait so she didn’t move her lips at ALL?! We’re her lips open or closed? I don’t understand how that’s possible