Me/m/46. So, I was frequenting this place for years. She’s been my waitress for about 5 yrs, I knew there was an attraction, I could just feel it. I was correct and it was mutual. There’s like a 17 yr age difference. She invited me to meet up with some friends for her birthday. We hooked up that night. But didn’t go all the way. Was that time of the month. But she hooked me up. Wink wink.
Second date was horrible. Not her fault, her pet had an accident. Not dookie, just something else. I was there, consoled her, helped, did everything… but still that night was a complete disaster. Didn’t do anything sexually. I was over it. I left in the morning, and she was pissed off. Which tells me she likes me.
But, when we hooked up the first time something wasn’t right. I felt she had some trauma. She was super tense, made her body super tight/enclosed. After some caressing she loosened up. But I feel there was definite trauma.
I don’t go to the spot as much but when I do, still hugs, flirting persists. She sits right next to me at times. She’s super hott. But I know she’s toxic AF.
What y’all think?
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I mean it’s kinda vague what you wrote. What specifically makes you think she’s toxic? Trauma could make it more likely that she could be toxic, but it’s definitely not a certainty.
Narcissistic behavior, only takes selfies on social media, never asked about my child, she has triggers sometimes when we talk, etc