I’m a Male 26. During foreplay the girl I’m with is fully aroused and enjoying herself. I can tell she doesn’t want me to stop what I’m doing and can see she’s wet. But when it comes to sex I feel like I’m just don’t know what I’m doing and feel like I need the girls help with stuff like getting in the first time and struggling with getting the girl in the right positions to insert it involves her doing a lot of the work or just sticking to positions where I do none.
I’ve had sex with multiple different people and it all feels like the same thing. When I hear stories from my friends they’re all saying how amazing their experience feels but me it just feels like I’m just waiting to come and it’s done.
Like how do I make the experience more enjoyable as when I was younger I didn’t really care but now I acc want to experience it and enjoy it if do get a partner.
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Nothing wrong with getting a helping hand putting it in, heck, sometimes i specifically tell a girl to do it as a kind of kink. As for getting the position right it does get better with practice, as with most things in life. I’m normally dominant so I won’t think twice about giving directions or voice my opinion about how my partner should adjust her body.
I think what I’m try to say is: perhaps slow down initially when getting into a position, do adjustments as needed while communicating and then have at it.
I (34) personally find it extremely hot when a guy tells me to put it in 🙊 I would not stress that part. It sounds like you’re over thinking it to me. Fun should be the goal, orgasms are a bonus. Ask her position she likes, tell her which ones you like