So I’m approx 60 have been divorced for a few years now and am thinking about getting back into the dating scene.
I want someone to get married to, Here is my dilemma I am very religious and don’t want to get with anyone who does not have my same views and opinions on that.
This is where the problem lies I am into some pretty rough and kinky stuff that a person of my beliefs might have a problem with but I don’t date and sleep around don’t believe in that. So I’m not willing to give up my beliefs or change in that area.
I keep thinking there has to be someone who is into the same beliefs and things I’m into. Might have to be single the rest of my life, which is a shame because I still have the drive and passion of a teenager.
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By the way I’m male
I guess there’s only one way to find out and that would be to start looking? It does sound like you’re limiting your choices quite a bit, but I guess that your principles and choice. All I can say is the best of luck, I hope you find your new favorite person!
People who play video games have a slang term, **face-check**: “To discover if it’s safe to blunder into a situation by blundering into it and seeing what happens.” The most typical example is if an enemy is hiding near you in a bunch of tall grass, waiting for you to join them so that they can ambush you. If you just walk in to see what happens, you’re checking with your face. In general, face-checking is not a smart way to learn things.
But in your case, it’s also your only option.
You can go from either direction: You can meet people who share your faith and then ask them about your kinks; or you can start at a kink community and then ask those people about your faith. But either way, the only way you’re going to find a compatible partner is by blundering into them.
I mean, you’re admittedly looking for a small subset of people. But I’m not sure what you’re asking us, really?