My gf is a Christian and I am an atheist. However she’d always send me reels about people saying how it’s good to have God being in the absolute centre of a relationship or family. This is kind of weird to me, in my mind we should be the centre and nothing, not even God should be in the centre of that. So it’s just a bit unsettling to me. And it still feels weird how God is way above me in every single way possible. But perhaps I’d have to try being a believer before I judge.
I just wanted to vent this out somewhere, some advice would be appreciated tho, I really want it to work out with this girl. Thank you for reading and for your time.
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It’s not going to work out with this girl.
Yeah that is strange. I vote to directly ask her to stop sending you God-related content in a tactful and respectful manner.
I don’t care what religion a girl I’m with is, I only care and it only bothers me when her *strongly stated beliefs* bear *shockingly little correlation to how she lives her life*.
Women who are bible thumpers on sunday and partiers on friday and saturday are women I will never ever take seriously.
But a woman who thumps that bible every day, hey, hmm…worth taking a peek and seeing if I could gel to the lifestyle (99% probably couldn’t but integrity is so valuable, especially in a modern woman, that it really is worth it to try).
As for your question…
**bruh** you already goofed by asking about the logic of an invisible all powerful all knowing but contradictorily somehow free-will giving and loving god who **will FUCK YOU UP FOR ETERNITY IF YOU GET OUT OF LINE**.
religion isn’t about logic, d00d.
it’s about structure. community. *family*.
If she’s the devout type like doing all the commanded stuffs to the letters and trying to change your life using guilt trips then it’s not gonna work I’m sorry.
Leave her, proselyting knowing the other person’s faith is a bit weird.
So, with Christians, God is kinda the perfect person. Christians hypothetically want to foster the character of god, which is usually very good and highly positive. If anything, having the character of god in the center of the relationship is simply an example both parties strive for and a common ground for decisions and behavior.
She probably likes you because you already have a very good character.
If she tries to convert you, and you don’t like it… then fuck it.
Otherwise, it’s just like having a picture of a football player on your wall you want to play like. That’s all.
If you want to be with her, you should probably find out exactly what she seeks in the character of god. Since she is dating an atheist, I assume she is not conservative and is rather flexible 😉
sounds like you should try to work it out because she will be a lot better than whats out here today. There’s a lot for you to learn from reading your post. I can recommend some YouTubers to watch, and I will say the more videos you watch, the more you will know what to do in XYZ situation 1—anthonyspade reactions 2. Manosphere highlights daily 3. Black Filipino TV 4. Legion of men 5. living a life of abundance. 6. casual bachelor 7. Fbe capital 8. Modern life dating 9. ReplicantPhish 10. Taylor the fiend 11. mtr (mediocre tutorials and reviews)
12. austin holleman 14. The celebrity junk 15. Oshay duke Jacksn 16. MJ get right 17. man reacts 18. better bachelor 19. darius m 20. coach greg adams 21. fresh n fit clips (with the word clips in the end)
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The funniest YouTuber here is living a life of abundance, so have your popcorn ready. If you want to go deep, check out MJ Get Right and Anthonyspade reaction videos from 1-2 years ago, and everyone else brings a unique flavor to teaching you about the dating scene with women. MJ has three videos with the word validate, after watching that i got laid on the same day. The only problem is, learning this stuff at 27yr instead of 18yr where i wish i knew it to have dated a lot more in my teens and early 20s. ;/
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In 6 months or less, your brain will generate all the answers you are looking for once you have enough information from all the videos you watched of every possible dating situation you saw.
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If you drive, then try to play a few videos to listen to. You’ll learn a lot faster. Get a second phone like I did if you need to separate GPS from what you are playing. and remember you can start of by just watching videos with thumbnails and titles related to your x situation so you solve your issues faster instead of watching videos in any order.
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so once again, the more videos you watch the more you will know *what to do* and *how to act* in xyz situation. that does also include looking through some of the older videos from years ago. you may find gold in there.