My best friends husband, his best friend, I will call John Doe for explaining, just recently became single, so naturally my best friend and her husband want him and I to get together. They secretly began convincing John without my knowledge lol, and now John has fallen for me, but I’m still on the fence about him. I don’t know him well enough to figure out if it would work or not, and I would agree to go out with him if he asks, but I’m also scared to do so just in case it doesn’t work out. I don’t want to hurt him, he seems like a nice guy and I noticeably make him quite nervous, but I feel guilty that I dont feel the same, it usually takes me a while to fall for a guy. I also dont want to hurt my friends either in case I can’t fall for him back. From what I do know about him, we only have a few things in common, and he lives quite the distance away. I’ve had a crush on another guy for a while, which may be why I am still sitting on the fence, but I think he might be too hard to catch, as I rarely get to interact with him, and I dont know if my odds are good, to get him as I dont know his thoughts about me, so I haven’t done anything about that. What’s ur thoughts? Should I risk hurting everyone to see if John Doe and I have chemistry? Or should I let things die on the vine before anyone gets too hurt.
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Ask yourself what you want and then go do that. Do you want to date this guy yes or no? If no then tell your friends to stop playing wingmen for you as it’s pressuring and not cool
If yes then go on a date with this guy and see how it goes
If you don’t know the answer / don’t know what you want then you are a lost cause my friend