I (23F) am just really tired of being a virgin šmy ex (24m) and I were planning on going all the way but then we broke up before he came to visit me. I feel like Iād be okay having sex with him. I feel like Iād feel more safe with him instead of some stranger. Heās also really hot and and I still fantasize about him but his personality is honestly so terrible. He makes awful ādark humorā jokes that are never funny like dumb shit an edgy high schooler would say, and itās kills me every timeš
But I just feel like if I get it over with Iāll be free to experiment with other people without the anxiety about how Iām going to lose my virginity and I feel like letting him do it would be easy for me because heās experienced and has always been respectful and gentle when weād do other lewd stuff together
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Don’t. He’s an ex for a reason. He doesn’t deserve it.
If you are thinking of saving yourself for marriage is completely ok. I am the only partner my wife has had sex with and I find that exceptionally wonderful.
If you want to ask him! Just make sure you keep your head clear lol
if you and him are both 100% sure itāll only be sex and maybe even just a one time thing then sure, but if you think thereās even a slight chance that either will get attached again or start feeling some type of way then itās honestly not worth the possible drama or complications.