F(33) is in a relationship with M (39), having been together for 13 years.
I had anxiety and depression for most of my 20s and he supported me and was patient. My libido was low but after depression treatment got even lower.
We have weeks when it’s 2-4 times per week but also a month without any sex. I just don’t enjoy it as much and I know he suffers. For a long time I felt like I’m broken, I’m very shy and don’t talk to my friends about sex.
We recently talked that maybe he should sleep with other women, or have other experiences but I’m afraid I’ll lose him either way.
I’m more comfortable letting him lead, I have a hard time being in charge with ideas or new positions.
What advice do you have?
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As a sex goddess nympho I will tell you men who want to stay stay and men who want to leave leave. I could do the hottest kinkiest shit and that doesnt guarantee nothing. So yeah.