Okay hi hello!! So basically I’ve(16f) been dating my bf(17m) for a few months now and we have an amazing relationship. Today we were just messaging and he told me that he “felt it get wet” when he rubbed me down there. THE PROBLEM IS I WAS WEARING JWANS. HE FELT ME GET WET THROUGH JEANS AND NOW I’M SO INSANELY EMBARRASSED. ALL WE DID WAS MAKE OUT AND HE TOUCHED MY TITS. WE’VE NEVER HAD SEX SO IDK WHY I GET SO WET WHENEVER HE JUST TOUCHES ME. HOW DO I STOP?! Is this even normal? I want the ground to open up and swallow me 😓😓 someone help!
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Speaking as a guy I can say with about 95% certainty that he finds this to be hot.
It’s normal so it’s nothing to be ashamed about. You’re supposed to get wet when your get aroused. If you didn’t then you would struggle to have sex, which is whole point of arousal. When your boyfriend said he felt the wetness it could have been more like humidity, as in warm and a little damp. If you’d soaked through your jeans you would have seen it.
I can assure you that a wet pussy isn’t going to turn off anyone sexually attracted to women. He gave you a compliment, not a complaint. Why would you treat it as a bad thing?
Try not to be embarrassed! It’s great that you’re with someone who turns you on so much. I think most people LOVE to see their partner aroused by them, it’s a massive turn on. I say, embrace it and use it to your advantage – let him know how much he turns you on!
It’s normal. Even to soak your pants. Its new and extra exciting. Over time it will be slighty harder to get you that worked up. Tit play for many woman (me included) is the easiest way to get a ladies downstairs sopping wet. Your body is prepping for the next stage, penetrative sex. It’s biological, even if that’s not your intention. Your body is wired this way.
Him commenting on it is just an observation and he probably liked it, but just to make things clear, go ahead and tell him something like…
“I’ve never been so turned on before, you made me so wet. When you played with my tits it just felt so good. How turned on were you?”
Talking about your experience is healthy.
Best of luck. Best of love.
You have absolutly no reason to be embarrassed. He turns you on, what more could you ask for. Enjoy it 😊
It’s normal especially at your age when everything is new and exciting. You can’t change how aroused you get and as you get older the smaller things like making out will not get you as wet as it once did because it’s not as new and exciting. You still will get wet it will just take a bit more to get there once you’ve done it many times.
Let um slurp it all up. In all seriousness, just wait a couple years. The moisture level should dissipate
it’s normal, that happens to me all the time and my boyfriend finds it real hot and it turns him on real good.
it’s completely normal. this is a physical sign of your body’s arousal – the equivalent of him getting an erection. there is nothing to feel embarrassed about, I promise.
Why would you want to stop it
This is 100% totally natural and absolutely normal! Getting wet is your bodies response to sexual arousal.
If your really into him it’s just you being really into him and turned on there’s nothing bad about it
Enjoy it while your young one day it will dry up just like your dreams and ambitions
Chill. He was telling you he liked it 😁😉
Ive gotten wet through my pants just from making out many times. It’s hot and fun but it is kind of vulnerable even though there’s nothing to actually be embarrassed about
Yes it’s normal
Hi! I had the saaaame problem when I was younger! I’m 22now but when I was 16 I had literally the exact same thing happen to me and I was sooo embarrassed! I talked to my bf at the time about it and he really didn’t think it was weird or anything strange at all! BUT, I will say since that happened I ALWAYS wore black leggings when I knew we’d be having our usual makeout sess lol and I will say it was sooo much better! Doesn’t feels super wet when someone touches, doesn’t look wet at all, and the best part…u can feel way more if ur grinding on top or he is using his hand to tease u a little😉
Um. Either never be horny or get over it 😂
Yeah this is incredibly hot, not a thing to be embarrassed about.
Damn that mf lucky
Trust me when you’re older and more experienced, You’re gonna miss being like this 😅
this dude thinks he can get you that aroused just from this alone.
imagine what he dreams will happen should any of this go further.
you’re very busy overthinking this to be a bad thing. he’s at home praying to any deity that he’ll get to do more.
more amazingly, you have a partner at that age who’s willing to communicate with you.
listing the facts:
-you’re in “an amazing relationship”
-he communicated with you
-you were aroused by him
-he could tell
-he got to have some fun
-you are very aroused when he touches you
-he likes this, according to one of your comments
….exactly what is the problem you think you’re having here?
This is normal and most guys would find this desirable because it means you are turned on and they made you feel that way. Being wet isn’t a bad thing at all.
If you have sex, make sure you are safe. Use condoms! Even if you’re on birth control. Birth control will not prevent STDs and the like. I’m sure you know all of this but I cannot stress it enough. Don’t trust someone by just taking their word they don’t have any stds, etc. You don’t want to be dealing with unplanned pregnancy or diseases. Be safe!
This is a normal response form your body towards someone you like. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Try not to be ashamed of it either ! It can be confusing but I promise you that it’s not a bad thing.
When you get older, you’ll appreciate it and every guy appreciates it even more. Nothing to be ashamed of!
It’s entirely normal. In fact it’s awesome. And a major compliment to him.