Looking for any suggestions on how to jerk off. I’m having a hard, heh heh, time getting it up and getting hard. I’m a 48 year old gay guy with little inhibitions and really want to get myself to finish. Any and all suggestions are welcome. Thanks!

2 comments

  1. Hard time getting hard, huh!

    It is the first hard that is taking away from the second hard.

    Word play aside, I am actually serious. Think about it

    If you think you have a problem with erections, then when you touch yourself, you are worrying about whether you’re going to get hard. You are doing everything with your mind on your penis; thinking ‘is it hard’, ‘when will it be hard’, ‘why isn’t it hard enough?’

    Worrying about your penis is not sexy and nobody can get aroused under pressure. ‘ED’ becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  2. Has this always been an issue or is it more recent?

    It might be worth talking to your doctor about. There’s a lot of physical issues that are possible like hormonal imbalances. And even if it’s not physical, there can be a level of worry about if you can get hard that’s preventing you from getting hard and erectile dysfunction medication can help get some confidence back and help the issue

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