I was just feeling self conscious thinking about women possibly judging my job role and future ahead when dating in the beginning. Does it impact how much you like a guy and if you see a future with him? Was just wondering because it has been bothering me lately. A highly skilled job vs. a low wage

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  1. lol. ive seen woman my age (38) that still be dating dudes that need to borrow their car. bumming money cuz they be smoking newport reds but make lucky strike money. dont let opinions on social media get you thinking that the amount of money you make matters as long as you can still support yourself. or find a girl that has alot of house plants. if shes taking care of 50 other useless things, whats one more.

  2. Lol, I care, but I did work hard for my career. So I need someone equally yoked. I do agree with the other commenter I have a lot of female friends that date men who have lower paying jobs than them. For the most part, find a job that gets you financially stable, and you will do alright in dating as long as you are kind and open-minded and etc.

  3. I need a guy who can relate to my career, I work senior director level at a Fortune 100 company. I tried to date a trainer for a bit…it wasn’t going to work. Our salaries don’t have to match but we have to be somewhat equally yoked.

  4. Ok so I never considered myself a gold digger. However, having been with men that have “pleaded poverty” but suddenly found money for hobbies and stuff that I wouldn’t class as priority, I will admit to being more wary these days. That said, proof a man is able to support himself financially is all I’m saying here. I’ve never really been a “career girl”. Long as you’re happy life shouldn’t be a shopping list of box ticking exercises regarding dating/relationship’s

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