I got out of a relationship 6 months ago where the guy blocked me when I needed emotional support. I had given him emotional support all the time so I felt very betrayed. I got suicidal and depressed but got out of it.
Now I’m talking to another guy and things r great. We like each other and it’s easy. But I keep thinking of how I was abandoned. The fear eats me up inside. I told him that I’m scared and he comforts me but ppl change. I just want to be strong but I’m scared that he’ll just leave me when I need him most. I’m unable to fall for him because of this fear.
Any advice is appreciated.
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I had a similar experience. There is no perfect solution in reality, so my only suggestion would be to focus on yourself and bring people into your life to add onto what you have. If you can get into a place where you don’t rely on the other person but rather appreciate their presence, I think that may make things easier. I got to a point where I just stopped caring? Idk I have been going day by day with new people, where I can appreciate whatever we have that is existing without fearing the future too much. It’s just about being content with yourself, which is something most people have to work on. Good luck 🙂