What is the most intimate thing your partner has done to you excluding sex?

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1. This is kinda weird but sometimes we’ll help groom each other, like tweeze each others eyebrows, wash/ brush each others hair, clean each others cuts, cut each others nails/ hangnails, etc. And sometimes I’ll squeeze his blackheads/ clogged pores for him but he doesn’t for me because I like getting them myself.

2. It’s more to him than to me but I maintain my husband’s locs so washing and retwisting his hair is one of our most intimate non-sexual acts.

3. We would read books, all sorts of different ones and we would spend nights just deconstructing the book and what’s happening in it or why. It sounds weird but it was like being vulnerable intellectually and getting to have these deeper convos and get to know a whole different side of him

4. Massage my feet. That’s all an ex was good for.

5. Pretty much every Saturday and Sunday morning when we wake up and don’t have to be anywhere, he’ll just stroke my body for about half an hour. Sometimes we end up having sex but that’s not the goal. He just loves looking at me and touching me for some reason haha