Since being pregnant and giving birth earlier this year my girlfriend and I only have anal sex, is this normal?
I think it came about from when she was pregnant and I felt weird sticking my dick in her pussy knowing the baby was only like an inch away from my helmet. Ever since we only do anal sex now, usually 3/4 times a week.
She can orgasm just through penetration but also enjoys a dildo in the pussy and or a vibrator/clit suction toy at the same time. I’m quite well endowed (5 1/2” soft, 8” hard with a thick shaft), so was always worried it would be too painful for her, but I’ve learned over the years to be patient and use plenty of lube/spit.
I know this probably sounds like I’m showing off and apologies to those in advance who are desperate to try anal with their partners. But I’m just worried it might cause her issues later on in life? I also worry that because I’m just used to anal now, pussy doesn’t feel the same to me anymore… anal was always that extra bit naughty compared to pussy and we used to do it occasionally to spice things up.
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I personally know pornstars who drive entire greyhound buses up their ass everyday and they’re fine. It’s made to let big ol turds pass through so if it was damaged that easy our bodies would have evolved differently. If she doesn’t feel anything off then you’re good to keep plowing that booty.
You’re fine. If it works for you both, there is no problem. Don’t overanalyze it.
The anus is a muscle so it’s designed to stretch and then return back to it’s original state. She won’t lose tightness or have incontinence problems as that only happens when you badly damage your asshole through being ridiculous (e.g using massive toys or doing stuff with no lube) so a penis won’t do much damage