(I’m not native speaker, so sorry for my chaotic English 🙁
One of my (20f) very best friend (20f) is being so frustrated recently. She’s known as a negative and sensitive person ( a lot of mutual friends told me so). I always thought she’s just being sarcasm, but recently I found out she’s thinking and saying a lot of negative/ brutal things which sometimes are just too much for me. Her life is always so dramatic that I even asked her if she knew what she’s doing. I really wanna help her and I did try, like telling her how I felt, giving her advices and tell her to pull herself together. I guess she’s been listening but not accepting.
I know friends should be there for each other for highs and lows but I’m just so done with listening to her complaining about how tired she is and seeing her being not in the mood for everything and all day long. We’re spending lots of time together and it’s a torture to see her being so down and to know there’s nothing more I can do to help her. I’m just helpless.
I’m starting to fade away from this friendship but I’m not sure if this would ever work. She’s actually a really caring friend and I don’t want to hurt her feelings since she’s that sensitive. I know you guys are way more experienced, so it would be really nice to have some advices from you! 😉
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#Don’tHaveTimeForToxic
Motivation!