22M. Okay, so I just came across a post about a guy who seems to have this ‘magic’ skill where many girls flirt with him without him even trying. He has a girlfriend and claims that every girl tries to get his contact. He is very average and not very tall.
Now, here’s me. I’m a pretty tall man, and I know I’m genuinely attractive, above average. I also have a very good physique (from the gym).
Since my last relationship, everything has gone from bad to worse. I’ve tried everything: all dating apps, cold approaches (a lot), talking to old female friends from school, going to many clubs, and even meditating (to be present and overcome the fear of talking to women).
I consider myself someone who frequently gets depressed and is shy, although that isn’t the case all the time.
I experienced a bit of success months ago, talking to about seven girls, and I felt pretty satisfied. However, I wasn’t truly attracted to them, so I ended up ghosting them.
I’d like to be in a situation where I can choose the best option for me (physically and in terms of personality), but in my current situation, I just can’t.
I’m studying engineering, and there are very few girls. The attractive ones are just impossible to flirt with. I’ve literally tried talking to almost every girl I find a bit attractive, but I end up ruining it.
I feel pretty depressed because it has been like that since my last relationship, and I’m thinking about giving up on dating and just paying for sex, which makes me even more depressed 🙁