I have heard if you want to make friends, be open and inviting. Tried that but it never seems to work but when im having those days where im closed off and don’t want to interact, all of a sudden strangers talk to me a tad bit more. even when im trying to give off the “leave me alone” vibes they keep speaking but when i give off the more open and approachable vibes, im often looked over and ignored.
Has this happened to anyone and why does it happen?
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There is something to be said for being emotionally congruent. Charisma comes from authenticity. Perhaps this is why you see results when you do.
Ask yourself this personally: Am I really feeling open and inviting?
Showing genuine interest in others, genuine kindness, and building trust are not mutually exclusive to being an ideal sense of “open and inviting.” These measures can come from an intent on connecting.
Also, patience, consistency, decisiveness will help bring everything together.
Keep going, you will succeed.