Soooo…. I’m 33M, was married for 11 years. Thing are not the same as they used to be at all and I don’t know how to deal with it. Lol.
It’s a completely different game. I do not know how to attract women like I did when I was single.
I just left the military and am not as fit as I should be, I know that’s a hindrance… but when did women lose the ability to hold a conversation?
Emotional connection seems dead to me. Worth is only in a monitory value. When did everything become superficial and lose sight of fun silly string fights?
What happened to love languages and being able to cook lose value?
As a man, I am to please. Not only in the bed but all aspects of life. I don’t like runny yolk, but I can fry an over easy like a chef any day for someone I’m interested in.
I prefer pasta and grilled red meat, but I’ll smoke a salmon any day for a woman.
Opening doors to see that ass walk by is the best part, but that is misogynistic now.
It’s a crazy new world and id love advice.
Please and thank you all!
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Same. 15 years together, married for 12. Single now for almost a year. It seems like conversation is hard too as its like pulling teeth to get any information or more than a short closed-end response. I feel like i have that silly child in me who wants the simplicity and playfulness of a youthful relationship but it seems like all that is wanted is what i can provide materialistically AND do so without expecting reciprocation.