Hi All,
I’m trying to understand how I come across throoughout my day, whether its at work, school, the, or the gym. I kind of fell I come across a little goofy (at least people suggest so) but I have no idea as to why.
I was thinking of recording my self via video at home (while working) throughout the day just to see how I come across. I was wondering if there any other ideas??
I don’t want to go asking people/friends/family how I come across. I ask my ex and she says I’m a nerd with zero swag, my brother says I’m cool. Needless to say I get different opinions from different people but I would like to see if I at least like and am okay with how I come across cause right now I don’t have a clue.
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I have the same damn issue with this curiosity. Definitely a lot of psychological baggage we have goin on here. Ask your closest people in your life but you will not have much of a clue with others.
I just thought of this, why not turn your phone recorder on when you are in places that is not classified as confidential, (like for ex. A hospital). Then you can play back how your conversations went and hear yourself from a new angle. Just save it for the end of the day so you can hear yourself with a fresher perspective.
Practice cognitive empathy in situations you want to know yourself better in
I feel similarly. I want to get the opinion of my co-workers, but it would most likely be awkward to ask.