Yesterday gf and I got really into it and I was trying to pace myself as best I could but had to pull out bc I was getting too close and gotta play it safe, and I ended up having one of those really disappointing orgasms where you try to hold off as best you can but you’re already over the edge and your own resistance makes it feel very mediocre. I didn’t cum nearly as much as usual either. The strangest thing though, I didn’t get soft. I mean maybe a tad bit but literally a minute later max I was ready to go again. Is this a well known exploit in the sex community? I didn’t go again right away bc of the risk of pregnancy dt additional semen left over, and condoms cause pain for her when she’s in late stage of luteal phase whenever I hit her cervix. I’m kind of excited to try this again, the disappointment is immediately eclipsed by the possibilities that this unlocks for me to go so much longer. Has anyone else experienced this???
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This, my friend, is a ruined orgasm! Your body ejaculates but doesn’t do a full release of the hormones that come with orgasm (this is not a scientific explanation, I’d look it up to get a better understanding if you want it!) and as a result you keep all the arousal! It’s a great tool used by the penis havers, either to keep going or to deny the full pleasure of orgasm. It’s great for continuing a sex session, I use this tactic lots as I struggle with PE
Yep. The good old pull.out method. Guaranteed to ruin sex for men and a 20% chance of pregnancy.