Title is misleading. She is NOT my girlfriend. She is my FWB! I’d like her to be my GF and see her as one but, technically, she’s not.. If that makes any difference :/

Kind of a two part question I suppose…

And I’m not sure if this is really a question or not but rather if this is “normal” or common?

While, I can’t say I necessarily “complain” about her easily orgasming, it just feels like it takes so little to make her cum. At first it was awesome but as time has gone by, it’s become less “awesome” and more frustrating for me and, sometimes for her as well.

Her cumming so easily usually forces me to pause what I’m doing and either wait till it’s over or, help her have a bigger one; which gets a bit tiresome tbh… It’s hard to get into the “grove” of things when it’s interrupted often. There are times when she just gets so exahsted to where she calls it quits (sex wise) and I never end up finishing.

We have talked about it and she is going to a gyno soon to talk about her frequent orgasms and her squirting but like, I feel bad because it’s not her fault and it’s not like having an orgasm or squirting is a bad thing. It’s just that she has them a LOT and squirts a *lot*.

The other thing is that, she squirts a lot, and often too…Not just like a little squirt but a solid 5 seconds worth and it’s not “hot” anymore. The first one is always the most but then there are smaller ones at least 5 times throughout sex. We have to literally lay out beach towels for sex now.

I feel horrible for asking her to go see a gyno but, I’ve never in my life experienced anything like this with a woman before and while I have no plans on leaving her over it, we do need to figure out the root “cause” or at least an explanation because for me, it doesn’t seem “normal” and it’s affecting our sex life. Both of ours.

Has anyone else had this experience before? Do you – as a woman – experience this? If so, was or is there any explanation as to why this happens?

6 comments
  1. quick question, how do you actually get ber to squirt because i can make my gf get really close but she starts squirming around, any tips?

  2. There’s nothing wrong with her. She orgasms easily. Orgasms, generally, take a lot out of women. Some women can orgasm multiple times and still keep going, while some can orgasm one time and be completely done. It’s just how her body works. Have both of you tried other ways to get you to orgasm? How long does it take her to finish?

  3. There is nothing to fix and nothing a Gyno can do about this. Her body is functioning normally and she has 0 way to control how much and when she squirts. If you don’t enjoy this, then someone else will. Sounds like you’re just not sexually compatible

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