I(19F) have had multiple sexual partners, but none have been significantly girthy till recent. I’ve been having sex with a guy who is considerably girthy and the biggest I’ve ever been with. I have been able to have sex with other guys in different positions, but with him we are limited to two otherwise its hard and uncomfortable for me despite using lube(medical condition). I’ve been chalking it up to the fact that I am a very anxious person and my body is most likely subconsciously freaked out to the point where I don’t believe I can do other positions like I’m used to. I am just curious if anyone else has had this issue before and what helped?
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As someone who’s really quite girthy, with partners that are a bit dry or anxious (often caused by the same conditions) the only thing that works is just, taking a lot of time to lube and foreplay, or… Just accepting that sometimes people fit best together in particular positions.
What position are you interested in doing and which ones are you currently able to do without any issues? What are all the issues that arises in positions other than those?
If he is too girthy instead of doing missionary or the other way that you do it try laying on your side and have him hit you from the side him stand up that way his girth goes long ways with your vagina and not sideways with your vagina