I (20M) like massaging my prostate from time to time. I normally insert 1 or 2 fingers up the rectum and find the soft bulby gland. It’s better than normal masturbation. But my concern is that when I do this i don’t cum with force, like in normal masturbation. And the cum is a bit watery and I cum less. I think the force issue is because the rectal muscles are expanded more than they are used to so you can’t thrust/contract with that much force right?
Is this normal? Am I to be concerned?
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It makes sense since the whole area is more relaxed and not super tight and ready to ejaculate like usual? I think haha.
Who cares, especially if it’s better. It’s just different is all. Many who have pgasms don’t even release cum
Naw man, you need to read up more on how prostate massage and orgasms work. What you’re experiencing is totally normal
If you massage / milk your prostate, it often makes fluid come out without necessarily having a normal orgasm. And the fluid is often clear. This is because you aren’t necessarily having an orgasm so you aren’t having the muscle contractions and mixing of sperm with the rest of the fluid, only some of the fluid is coming out.
It’s totally normal.
If you wait some time after doing this, and then go masturbate as normal without any prostate stimulation, you’ll find your semen texture goes back to the usual.
You can also try stimulating your penis and prostate at the same time, and having an orgasm at the same time you are rubbing the prostate. it’s not clear to me if you are already doing this or not. This can feel incredible, although it can sometimes be a bit hard to coordinate; I find it easier to do if I am using a toy, like riding a toy to stimulate my prostate, while masturbating with my other hands. This often actually makes me ejaculate more and with more force, but it is also a bit more watery and thin. It depends though, like If I orgasm quickly doing it this way I often don’t produce a large volume of fluid, mainly because some came out from rubbing the prostate and it didn’t have much time to replenish.
Either way, there is no need to be concerned, what you are doing is healthy and can feel really good. Enjoy!
Sperm count doesn’t change from different wank methods. Also, sperm only accounts for 3% of what comes out when you ejaculate.