Hello there. I’m a cis f who tends to be more submissive and also who recently was in a d/s relationship with a cis m as his sub. Currently however, I’m seeing this girl I really like. She’s kinky but I need to learn exactly what she likes. I’ve dommed a cis f before but honestly never have with an amab body. I don’t really know what I’m doing and she’s topped me recently and has expressed interest in me taking a turn. Looking for ideas/advice for making a trans girl the most comfortable possible pre op during sex
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Trans chick here, hello! Albeit post op and didn’t really experiment much in the before times. There really isn’t a generalized rule for treating trans girls to make them comfortable. Everyone’s gonna have their own preferences and dysphoria triggers. Since you’ve been in D/s before, I’m sure you already know that asking for specifics is important, so you can just ask. Otherwise, the best thing you can do is just treat it like a normal encounter. Ask her what she likes, and what she wants you to do! Just speaking for myself, I definitely preferred it when people didn’t give me special treatment or consideration when they knew I was trans.