I mean I do but I don’t, like I want to have sex and pleasure my partner but I don’t really want any pleasure myself? Like seeing my partner get pleasure gives me pleasure and I don’t want pleasure back because I don’t feel the need for it, seeing her get pleasured satisfies me and I’m like completely okay with stopping once she’s gotten all the pleasure she wants. I don’t think I’m asexual, I like giving pleasure but I don’t really feel the need for my own nor do I want it. I’ve tried to talk to my friends about it but they just seem to think it’s weird and I’m just really confused?
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There’s nothing wrong with you not wanting to have sex, and you don’t ever have to have sex unless you decide it’s something you want to explore and experience for yourself. We are all unique in what we feel drawn and called to experience, and those calling can shift and change over time as well. Follow what calls you and what you want to experience, not what others tell you, you should.
Best wishes on your journey’s ❤️