Hello,
3 months ago I bought a puppy for my wife, for a year and a half she begged me that she wanted a puppy and finally I got one, the problem appeared gradually, she realized that she didn’t want him and that she didn’t love him no matter how hard she tried to do this. on the other hand, I, who did not want to get a puppy, love him and am very fond of him. my problem is that I work away from home for a month and for a month I am at home with them (she staying at home with him all the time) I really want an honest opinion because I don’t know what else to do, I don’t want to leave the dog to someone else but neither I lose my wife for him.
thank you!
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Well you have had the puppy 3 months and I’m assuming you have been with your wife a lot longer, so I would expect you to choose her over the puppy. It’s unfortunate and sad that she was unable to bond with him, but I guess you can’t do much about that, I think it would be best for the puppy while still young to go to another loving home, I know it will be hard for you, but it’s not fair to the puppy having to be left at home for a month at a time while your away with your wife who isn’t interested in him. Also puppies are hard work and they need a lot of attention, time and dedication that’s going to be hard when one of you is away and the other doesn’t care for him.
Your wife has realized that a puppy isn’t all the fun and games that they portend to be. And being the sole person to care for it for an entire month can be exhausting. The fact that you’re gone for a month at a time means that you’re not getting the full picture of what raising the puppy entails either.
While you may like the puppy, your wife doesn’t and you’re not there to be the primary caregiver. The pup is still young and you can likely find another owner who will have the time, patience, and inclination to care for and train a pup. It’s time to do what’s best for your marriage and for the pup.
Since the puppy is only three months old, finding a new home for him will be a lot easier than if he was older. If you came home every night I would say you should keep him but that isn’t the case.
Is so irresponsible to get a puppy and then try to get rid of it because your wife doesn’t feel like having one anymore. It annoys me when people think a dog can be disposed when they don’t feel like having one or don’t “feel the bond” 🫤
Divorce that whore