Maybe my (18M) expectations were too high, but yeah I went on a date with a girl (21F) I met on tinder. Almost everything about it was average sadly. I just graduated high school and am working now before uni starts, so i’ve been going on dates to keep busy. We both knew it was casual so she was happy to, we did it behind some bushes in a dark park, it was risky for sure. But yeah, I didn’t feel much, not sure if I was even hard. I finished eventually which was probably the only part I really felt. Not sure if it was because of the girl, me, or the fact it was rather uncomfortable environment.
I didn’t feel much for the girl romantically at least, she was cute but that’s about it. We were doing this mostly for the fun of it.
Maybe its ED from watching too much porn or wanking too much, but idk. The only time i’ve ever felt this way before was because I got sick before a date (i didn’t realise i was sick during the date) and basically threw up after she left. During that session I just wasn’t feeling it. I felt tired and like I wasn’t working. I felt like I was working today, during make out sessions, Id feel myself getting hard, but when push came to shove I’m not sure what happened.