Do guys usually like Frenulum attention? Just curious. Women never seem to know about this spot and I always have to explain it feels amazing, like clit good.

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1. I know this spot well. If I spend too much attention on it though it does get overstimulated, I think it does differ from man to man

2. I’ve only ever came this way twice…..once a woman concentrated on it exclusively…at first I was like…OK this is boring but eventually…fucking hell. Never had it repeated as others have always done lots else as well….might ask.my wife to just stay there as an experiment.

   Other time I held my wife’s wand to it and lay back and relaxed….also good of a bit different from the normal orgasm….was good though

3. That’s because women are just as clueless about sex as men are.

4. I have never done this for a man to completion but during any oral I give him or even had stimulation…. Even in the beginning thru his pants – I def make sure the frenulum and the tip get a lot of attention….

   Typically get them really aroused before we have PIV

5. How can anyone who’s ever licked a dick not know about that, but probably not by name? There’s also the rim (glans) and the seam, which likely has a technical name too. I was surprised this dude had never heard of the seam, apparently knew nothing about it.

6. I always give it attention. But only some men seem to react to it. Others don’t seem to notice. Same with the taint and balls and his nipples.

   Every guy is very different

7. Honestly, I used to be really good about remembering to focus on this, but my boyfriend doesn’t really feel anything there. He says it’s mildly more sensitive but not really particularly so. So now when I’m with other people (ENM) I forget and have to be reminded to play with it 😅

8. I pay the most attention there. Drives my man wild

9. Oh hell yeah. That’s the spot that makes me cum.

10. No, it doesn’t feel good at all

11. My frenulum is the first thing I teach a partner and most are clueless. Frankly, my head is too sensitive to mess with, so that’s also a priority on my personal preference education.

12. Just laying back with my cock resting on my wife’s lips and watch her kiss and lick it till I cum is absolutely awesome.

    Better than I BJ any day.

13. Doesn’t feel great for everyone, though. On the other hand, we need much more attention to the taint. Free the taint! Free the taint! Let’s get this movement started!!

14. I think for some guys it’s initially not super sensitive to the touch, but over time it builds up. I sometimes rub one out with a little lube and just focus two fingers in slow circles on the frenulum only. Great orgasms. My wife has given me one that way too. She was quite entertained to learn about it.

15. The frenulum is your friendulum

16. I’ll be honest. I can’t write about this topic specifically here because it’ll get modded.

    People will go on infinite rants about certain types of penis apparently being the source of all genital uncleanliness and scent in world history, which will get sagely affirmed, but if you offer the slightest lived experience of why you might have a particularly sensitive frenulum, and it uses any of the keywords, I’ll get modded.

    It’s happened on at least three occasions over a period of months, and all of the comments were purely personal testimony without any ranking or soapboxing, just a narrative of what things felt like.

    Curious, really.

17. I hate having it touched

18. bro at this point any kind of attention will do.

19. In my experience, more men want that spot left alone than actually played with…..

20. I know a lot about male anatomy…

21. Oh my God, yes. It’s my favorite. Get it real wet and slowly rub (or lick) it gently for a while. It’s so stimulating it can make me cum before I even get hard.

22. i love the frenulum rub! its my favourite. I discovered it when i was young and its the main way i self pleasure. I feel i can control more my edging and i feel like my orgasms are stronger. I agree…. clit good. I have spoken to a sex coach and sexologist and they feel the same way about it. TONS of nerve endings there.

23. Oh yes! Mrs will sometimes just only give it attention with her mouth.

24. Nope, my FWB LOVES it and goes wild when I give it attention with the tip of my tongue.

25. I have mine pierced to heighten the sensation so yes, I love the attention.

26. 100%

    Not sure I cod cum just from that though

27. Took me reading like 20 comments to realize this said frenulum and not perineum

28. Licking around there makes my man lean his head back and moan 😈 and it’s so hot

29. This is the G spot for men

30. Are you circumcized? The only men I knew that really liked it were not. Cut men are typically not as sensitive

31. So when I lost my virginity it ripped and while that lead to a fairly horrifying evening I always felt afterwards like it was no big deal. Now reading these comments I’m sad I lost something apparently quite useful.

32. I love it when it happens, but it doesn’t come up too often even when I take the time to give input on what I like. Despite all the grief men get for being bad at oral, personal experience has shown me women aren’t any different in that regard.

33. My ex actually didn’t like frenulum stimulation, he complained it was *too* sensitive.

    I’m well aware that the frenulum is supposed to be a good spot for most men, but I think I’d still be a little nervous about just going for it without any prior discussion due to his reaction.

34. Yes

35. I’ve learned this about my body only a couple of years ago. For those that haven’t tried it, it feels like nothing for a while then it starts feeling kinda a little bit like something then it’s interesting then shit gets WILD.