I have a issue. My girl was a virgin till 26F a few months back. We slept together, it was a bit of a struggle, but we did it. She is very innocent and has absolutely no experience sexually. I have had a few long term relationships as I am 33M years old. She is not into fore play and after about 30 of getting busy she does not seem to get any pleasure. I think she is broken…..I know what I am doing as I had a good past history, and nothing has changed from my side. I am just trying to figure out what can be wrong so we can get it sorted.
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How many times have you had sex? My first experience was with someone who was also a virgin, so we were both inexperienced but it was definitely not until like 4 or 5 times that she really started to enjoy it, and even longer until she was comfortable with everything and us exploring eachothers bodies a bit. If you have more experience, you are going to have to guide her through things a bit and be patient with her… assuming you’re wanting things to last.
Jesus dude, her first time and you think she’s “broken.” If that’s how you phrase things, no wonder it didn’t go well.