(19m) basically I can fuck a random girl who’s my fuck buddy and it’s hard to cum,sometimes i don’t even cum but like i just had sex for the first time with my girlfriend who I’ve only known for like 2 months as soon as i put it in i came it’s so weird does anybody have ideas or suggestions on why that happens to me 🤷🏼‍♂️.
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maybe because you have a deeper romantic connection to her rather than it being solely sexual with nothing else
Your attraction to a person can alter how hard and when you cum with a person. It’s chemical or some shit. I don’t have the proper terminology in terms of the science behind it but it’s been the case for many other men before you too.
I had the same issue. Hookup, with a condom, I once lasted 2 hours. Got a gf and later a wife, I do about 15 mins- 30. If you’re comfortable, safe, and feel a genuine loving connection, orgasms are way easier.
Awwhhhh crapppp someone fell in love. Lmao but seriously, most people enjoy sex much more with a love interest vs a casual hook up. So just know it’s nothing to be ashamed of but don’t leave your partner hanging! There are many other ways to please your SO if they didn’t reach the finish line. If they already did then don’t worry too much about how long you last because after awhile the activity will loose it’s specialness