I have never used a dating app before. So I’m not really sure how this works. I saw this in my husb’s app store account. I can’t approach him directly about this or he will realise that he forgot to hide his tracks. I don’t have access to his phone or devices. Clearly he has things he feels I shouldn’t know. In the past I have expressed displeasure whenever I come across something I accidentally saw. Which caused him to build up his walls. Now this…. I sort of hinted to him that if he wants to cheat on me or meet new ppl he should just end the marriage before doing so. He swore on his parents’ lives that he never ever downloaded any dating app. So then what is this I’m looking at? Can anyone help me to understand how this works?
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I don’t see how it could be anything except what you expect. Usually something like that is an in-app purchase, meaning that he would have had to download it, create an account, and then buy the subscription. Which seems like a lot of steps to have happen on “accident”.
He had a subscription before and didn’t renew it since April 19
A subscription is definitely linked to his account. I’m not familiar with that particular app but my friend has tinder and bumble and they have free versions which is more than usuable.
My understanding is if you have a subscription, you get extra features such as unlimited swiping and you see who liked you but you didn’t like back and getting extending time for people who you matched with but have not messaged yet.
So he was not only using it, he was paying for extra features. Safe to say, he was probably pretty active on it.
If you have access to his phone, add your fingerprint and then try to download the app and then most apps would give you an option to log in using fingerprint so you don’t have to guess the email address and password. Maybe you can still see the messages there.
What you’re looking at is a subscription that expired in April. Looking at the app on the App Store, it doesn’t mentioned anything about a year or longer subscription. All it shows for in-app purchases are month to month subscriptions and whatever “beans” or a “bag of beans” is.
Can’t speak to the nature of users do in the app, I’ve only ever used 1 dating website back in 2012. That being said, definitely rather suspicious to have a dating app subscription on your device if you’re married.
Does he share his Apple membership with family? For example you can share storage space, music subscription, etc with multiple people.
Anyway you need to sit your husband down and start the conversation by demanding his phone. Dont let him save himself by giving him a head start. Even if he’s innocent that kind of secrecy isn’t healthy in a marriage. He needs to be a little more open.
He definitely is lying. I’ve used this app. It’s strictly for dating.