***I asked him flat out if was he saying that he didn’t want to see me again. And he said that’s not what he’s saying.***
I’ve been friends with benefits with a guy for a year he’s busy working a lot now. So, we don’t get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other. I saw him yesterday and we talked. I told him I went on a date with another guy and this is how the conversation started. He told me not to limit myself and that it was okay for me to date. And that I should do things that don’t include him. Because I deserve to be happy and if dating other people makes me happy then it’s ok (I told him I was dating someone). He said I deserve to be happy. And to be involved with someone who can give me more of their time etc. I get what he’s saying but I told him that it wasn’t an issue for me. And that I like spending time with him because I feel safe.
**He told me that he doesn’t have many friends and that he only talks to his mother, her boyfriend, and his two other friends. He has issues with communication.**
He told me to let him know if I start having sex with someone else. And that he and I would stop having sex and just be friends. And that there would be no more (sexy) time. Then he made a comment saying something like \*I could get you back started having sex again\* and he laughed. So basically if he and I are just friends without the sex. He believes that he can just get me back started again.
*I have gone out on two dates with a guy and we are going on a third date soon. However, I do not plan to sleep with him anytime soon. But this guy isn’t into all the things I like sexually with my FWB.*
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You’ve posted this question enough times now. Miss, you need to stop wasting time with this FWB and go get you a bf. You actually want a bf and he knows this.