Even when I was with someone else in high school, I was attracted to the best friend more than my then-boyfriend. I find them generally suaver, especially when your potential boyfriend is being a nervous wreck around you during the will-they-won’t-they period. While the potential boyfriend is busy showing you the reasons to be with him, his wingman steals the show by pulling his leg and making the group laugh altogether. They love your presence and care about you in a platonic way and it kind of makes me feel comfortable. Even after parting ways, I try to be in contact with the friends and the only time I had to cut ties was in case of a filthy breakup but even then, I miss them instead of my ex-boyfriend.
This makes me wonder, should I have dated them instead?
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Just start asking guys what their birthday is cause it sounds like you want to be dating air signs.
Can you message me? Similar situation.