I’m okay being single but in the night i crave touch so bad

26 comments

1. Same bro, same

2. Try to find where all the local lady widows hang out in your city. I bet they’re looking for warmth at night as well.

3. Good to know I’m not the only one going through it.

4. THIS! I can relate to this so much. This is basically my whole life till now, and it gets more depressing every passing day!

5. Woman here…same! I can’t cuddle with myself.

6. Suck it up

7. Damn sounds familiar im afraid you are going to be labeled hypocrite sir

8. I feel this often. Being single is cool in that I have me time but no intimacy sucks.

9. Been working some long hours, it would be nice to have someone to come home to and wrap my arms around.

10. Woman – me too! I’m a widow & miss all the affection & night time cuddling!

11. I also feel the same for now,but not okay for being single,have been single for some months now,it feels stressful to me and really want someone to be with

12. My significant other was murdered by a airplane pilot two months ago. I’ve never felt this alone

13. I feel the same way. Been single for maybe 6 years and I’m super happy but sometimes I feel like it would be nice to be touched by another human being lol

14. Literally me

15. Same.. I haven’t had sex/ intimacy in over 2 years, before that it was like once or twice a year for years with my ex.. and I’m a really sexual person with a partner so I’ve been neglected, lol..
    Being single sucks for that.. I’m not a fwb kinda person either. Idk what to do at this point

16. I’m single and I definitely understand this. I don’t want to get back with any of my exes because I know they were not the right guy for me, but I still miss the company and intimacy.

17. I’ve been feeling the same way!

18. Yeah that does sound nice…I haven’t yet found someone that I want to have around enough for this. I’ve cuddled dates and friends and hook ups. But there’s always some other motivation

19. Look into cuddle therapy

20. Same. I crave intimacy and companship, but I don’t want to date right now, and I also don’t want anything casual. I’m in a weird place I guess.

21. Same. Been alone since my divorce 16 years ago.

22. I’m divorced and I feel the same way. The loneliness and lack of physical touch sucks. Almost unbearable at times, but we keep working hard and moving forward.

23. In the same spot. I am 39 and been divorced twice and it’s the touch/cuddling I miss the most. Almost to the point I regret getting divorced the last time even though it was a very bad situation.

24. A few months ago I caught myself feeling really fuzzy when hugging my backpack on the train and it scared the hell out of my how starved of touch I am to fool my body like that. And that’s even with me really hating being touched, back when I was a kid I always thought human skin only feels sweaty and icky when I was forced to by relatives or had to hold hands with someone at school.

25. As a guy here who hasn’t had any luck with dating in the past and I don’t really know if I want a relationship or just causal fun I do miss that part of being in a relationship someone to lay their and cuddle and just chat about things so random but it’s makes you feel better I miss that

26. Yeah same and also companionship. Covid really did a number on my circle of friends too so it’s not just the romance and warmth.