Of all the friend groups I’ve found my self in, I’ve always been at the bottom of the hierarchy. I’m not considered to be of any value or importance to anyone else’s life. I always have to initiate conversation and put in effort to make others notice me. When people do say hi to me, they only do it out of obligation or to look nice infront of others.
I don’t have any outstanding qualities myself like humor or charisma. I just take interest in other people and try to be as nice as I possibly can. Even so it doesn’t seem to work out for me. Is there something I’m doing wrong?
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You’re not doing anything wrong but it doesn’t seem like you’re building any deeper connections. You could be doing a great job at making first impressions but you’re not giving anybody bits of yourself to build true connections over shared interests.
So yes you’re great to meet. But people may be struggling to find enough things in common to hangout (think food, drinks, movies, concerts)