Why do us men like to be called “Daddy” during those intimate moments?

38 comments

1. I don’t like it, it’s awkward and weird.

2. I personally fucking hate it, have hated it since my daughter was born

3. It’s never bothered me.

4. Not my thing. Back in my younger, pre marriage man-whoring days, I’d shut that shit down quick if a girl started calling me daddy.
   Same for the few chicks who wanted me to call them “momma/mommy”.
   Nothing against those that dig it, of course. You shine on, ye crazy diamonds.

5. I’m not into that. There’s not anything I’m particularly into being called when I’m fucking.

6. I wouldn’t be opposed to it if it was a heat of the moment phrase that slipped out, whatever gets her to the finish line. But I don’t want a performative response that she thinks I want to hear.

7. I don’t have kids, I never will, and it’s close enough to my actual kink that it works.

8. I don’t like it, at all, in fact I find it very disturbing.

9. We like to be called daddy? That’s news to me.

   >what do you like being called when the moment is getting spicy?

   My name. “You” also works.

10. I’m not really into it. “Sir” is much better, less creepy at least.

11. I don’t.

12. Us?

    I don’t like that shit.

13. I like it.
    I think it has a deep root in traditional fathers being the leader. Their partner entrusted everything to him. Womens future were dependend on whether he takes care of her or doesn´t. Used in a sexual way it translates to sexual dominance. Your partner entrusts herself to you. But I´m not even sure if that´s what I feel. I can´t really pinpoint it out.

14. No. It’s weird, awkward, embarrassing and quite frankly a turn off.

15. Yeah, this isn’t a Us Men, that’s a you thing.

    If you’re in to that, that’s fine.

    I have a name and would prefer that be used. Other established pet names will be fine, and Daddy will never be one of them.

    I also don’t know what the fuck Spicy means as it sounds like it’s less than hot, but some people use it to describe combination anal/vaginal fisting which is… an ocean ahead of hot, over on the Fetish Isles.

16. I don’t.

17. Not to my liking, just is weird to me even before I had my daughters, would probably be a mood killer if I was ever called it…which luckily I haven’t

18. I don’t think most men do, mate haha.

    >what do you like being called when the moment is getting spicy?

    My name. It sounds dumb but that’s the sexiest thing a woman can call me in the bed. Makes it so personal.

19. I never had kids so I don’t have that paternal association with “Daddy”. So to me it’s entirely kinky and sexual and I love it.

20. Dont know, some of us just do 🤷🏻‍♂️

21. I never liked it, I think it’s really creepy.

22. I sure as hell don’t. I have a 20+ year old daughter. the whole concept is gross.

23. I’ve never had a woman call me that during sex, but if that gets her into it, I don’t know that I’d stop her.

24. Speak for yourself

25. Don’t use “us”my guy. Most guys I know don’t like this.

26. For me it’s nothing to do with the meaning behind being called daddy, it just sounds slutty as fuck when women say it to you in bed.

    When it comes to sex and being horny, all logic goes out the window.

27. We absolutely do not like this. And least those of us that aren’t weird.

28. Speak for yourself

29. Don’t lump me into “us” buddy… pal… whatever you like to be called.

30. I’ll never request it, but if she likes it, I’m fine with it. Ex-girlfriend would say it anytime she was really into it while riding.

31. We do?🤨

32. I don’t and I have always thought that was weird.

33. R/womenwritingstraightmen

34. Not me, that’s weird to me.

35. I like it because there’s a submissive connotation to it. It’s an invitation for you to take charge

36. Not much into it.

37. I’m very dominant in the bedroom but tell gals that “daddy” is a no go word.

38. If creeps me out. I would hate to ever be called that.