hi, so for some background on the situation. me and this girl only darted for 2 weeks so it wasn’t anything crazy, but i for sure have a lot of feelings for her even still. we broke things off on sunday night because she felt as if she wasn’t emotionally ready for another relationship (she broke up with her ex boyfriend a few months prior) and told me she was still interested in being friends for a little while and maybe trying again later when she feels more ready. she asked if i needed time alone and i said yes, so she’s waiting on me to reconnect. i feel as if im kind of ready to take that step to text her, but i also feel it may be too soon? 3 days isn’t really a lot to be apart for, so im unsure of what to do… i dont want to jump the gun on this, so any advice is appreciated. thank you!
tl;dr: girlfriend of only 2 weeks felt as if she wasn’t emotionally ready for a relationship so we broke up 3 days ago, i am now considering texting her but feel as if it’s too soon.
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She isn’t ready to be in a relationship with you. If your goal of texting her is to be honestly just a friend with no motives with hopes she will reconsider, then you can text her now. If its anything but that, you need to wait until you see her as just a friend.