Hey everyone,
I’ve been seeing this guy for a while and everything has been going great. Suddenly, like yesterday I started overthinking everything and just got the ick. I saw him at uni today and could barely look at him because I felt so weirded out. He hasn’t done anything bad either and I don’t understand what is wrong with me. I started picking apart his appearance and how awkwardly he acts in social situations. Now I feel very unsure about this, I have never been in a relationship before so I don’t know if this is normal or not.
Also before I met him I was pretty sure I was a lesbian, but after I thought maybe bisexual so now I don’t know what to think. Maybe the real issue is that he is a man.
I’ve never really looked for a relationship to begin with so maybe I’m not ready for it.
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No this isn’t normal. We’re self sabotaging for… some reason. I’m not sure why. Might wanna look into that.
Do yourself a favor and seek counseling for yourself sooner rather than later.