Good day,
I \[25M\] met this girl \[25F\] on tinder about 3 weeks ago. We started by chatting and then agreed to meet. First date went well and we are seeing each other now 1-2 times a week and chatting almost everyday. So she is turning 26 very soon, in several days and I am not sure If I should get her a present and if yes how expensive it should be as I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable. I am pretty sure we wont meet on actual day as she will spend it with her friends so most likely present would be given after b-day.
Any ideas are appreciated and thanks.
4 comments
Maybe something small would be a good idea.
Maybe valued at 75 rupees or less.
Nah. I’ve been seeing a guy I met OLD for a month (a couple of times a week) and I didn’t tell him last weekend that it was my birthday on Saturday. We went to the cinema in the afternoon and I enjoyed seeing him but my main celebration was with family in the evening. I didn’t want to put him in the awkward position of worrying about a card or present. So her expectations are likely to be low.
As you already know, maybe turn up with some flowers the time you see her nearest her birthday and say happy birthday by message on the day.
Just get her something small, which would mean a lot to her. For example, her favorite flower or maybe her favorite chocolate. Or invite her to her favorite coffee place.
It will not cost you much but it will show her you care. And more importantly that you listen.
Never heard of a woman once complaining if a guy listens too much. 🙂
If she mentioned what her favorite candy is, get her that. Maybe in bulk. It shows that you are attentive and thoughtful.