i’ve been with women 2-3 years now, and i recently started seeing a guy. i lack a lot of confidence to please him; i feel awkward initiating, like i don’t know what i’m doing lol, or i feel like i could do more. it’s so different between men and women, and i want to please him. i asked him if i did, he said yes, i asked what kind of things he would like to try, and it was mostly pleasing me.
have you dated the same gender then switched? how did you gain the confidence back?
he likes to give, but i feel like i could do more for him. how can i make it sexier? talk dirty? ride? 😂 i’m rusty!!
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you’re already on the right track with opening up communication! it can certainly be daunting to make the switch so be honest about that with them so they know where your feelings/nerves are at and you can hopefully work together to alleviate any hesitancy and doubt 👍
The most important think is the same: listening to your partner and believing him. He said it’s great for him, than it’s great. If you let your lack of confidence get in the way, it will spoil the sex for both of you.
That being said, if you want to improve your sex life’s, pay attention to his reactions. If you want to add anything else, go for what you find hot or something he specifically says he wants, men are not a hive mind.