I (28F) have never felt the need to make noise during sex or masturbation. I can be alone in my home, and masturbate but I just won’t make any noise, at most, heavy breathing. Why is this? No matter if I cum or not. My partner couldn’t care less, in fact, I don’t think he likes noises that much. I did make a very slight noise once and he stopped because he thought he was hurting me.

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  1. Some do, some don’t. The only issue for me was an ex who was so quiet that I couldn’t tell when she orgasmed. I wanted her to tell me and she wouldn’t. Felt like I might just as well not have been there

  2. Well everybody is different, there is no issue with not making noises 🙂 nothing wrong with you.

  3. “..never felt the need to make noise during sex or masturbation,,”

    ” My partner couldn’t care less, in fact, I don’t think he likes noises that much.”

    It sounds like you have found the perfect sex partner for yourself.

    He doesn’t *require hearing you scream/moan* in order to feel sex is passionate or great.

    Some guys want their sex life to resemble the porn clips they watch online.

    Being able to simply *be yourself* in a relationship is a wonderful thing.

    ***”Love what you have before life teaches you to love what you lost.”*** – Unknown

    Best wishes!

  4. Years of practice keeping it down with others in the house so it’s become the norm?

    Took us a few years to get out of being silent once the kids left home.

  5. i don’t either – i can be totally silent if i want to; but when im having sex i usually don’t want to (and i can tell he also likes it)
    so just see what works for u, it’s 100% normal! if ur parent doesn’t mind & neither do u-there’s no problem

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