This is mostly targeted towards heterosexual relationships, coming from the curiosity of a heterosexual woman…Men who are in relationships, how often does your SO give you head? I feel like my (F22) boyfriend(M22) expects it quite often from me. For the most part I do enjoy it and I love to see him happy and squirm but sometimes It gets to be a lot (example 3 times a day once) and I just want to relax and cuddle. Oftentimes there is no sex to follow it either. While I don’t believe I should be compensated or feel like I need something in return each time, sometimes it would be nice. It’s just like he craves it all of the time, which I take as a compliment in one sense, but another sense it’s a lot sometimes.
Edit: I probably give him head 5-6 times a week, sometimes more than once a day
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I only have sex about once per week, but every time I have sex, oral sex giving and receiving is involved. Usually it will be her on top and we 69 before she rides me or I go down on her and then she goes down on me a little to wake little Salmonberry up before missionary. There are variations.
I forgot what that was
I’m currently running an average of once every 4 years
I would like to preface I do enjoy giving head to him, at some point it just begins to be too much. I once gave him 3 in one night. He tells me that I’m just so good at it, which I’d imagine that’s why he wants it so much but I literally woke up the next morning and my mouth was sore.
Basically never.
I don’t care for blowjobs, really. I much prefer being active during sex and blowjobs make me feel like I have to put on an act the whole time.
If you’re not satisfied with something, tell your partner.
I see my boyfriend pretty much everyday and he gets head from me at least 5 or 6 of those 7 days of the week. Sometimes more than 1 time in a day
Pretty much whenever I want it, it can be several times a day. Giving a blowjob turns my wife on – I got lucky.
Before marriage: 4-5x a week
During marriage: 2-3x a week
End of marriage: 1-2x a week
Now: 0x a week (never)
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Head? Once every year or two. A bj is a long forgotten memory. None of my FWBs are into it so until I find a new one it will be a while.
Twice a week before my girlfriend moved in, now it’s twice a year.
Maybe twice a month
Once a year. Causes my wife jaw issues so I don’t press the issue
I get headaches more than I get head.
I am on the opposite side, my wife has always had a thing for blowjobs, it’s been like this from the first day we meet, been married now 20 years, I know it was the same in her previous relationship’s.
Sex and head are 2 completely different things to my wife, she doesn’t even count giving head during foreplay during sex as “head”, for her head is only when she gives me oral to completion. I do give her oral, but this is when we have sex.
So head, it’s at least once every other day on weekdays, and every day off.
It is definitely a fetish, sometimes an obsession, she does like to do it often, she has gotten upset with me before because it was not possible, or because I masturbated instead of having her give me head.
It’s been an interesting journey.
Daily or nearly.
After menopause she had an issue with dryness and didn’t like any of the lubes. But was satisfied with the way giving oral increased her vaginal excitation and the extra moisture made the whole PIV action feel more natural.
Kid you not, my wife waits for me to wake up on the weekends so she can give me a blowjob. Not to mention the ones that happen right before actual intercourse. So if I had to put a number on it, 6-7 a week?
Very very rarely, my wife gags on air let alone anything else 😂😂. Maybe a couple of times a year max.
Never
I haven’t been with a woman since 2019 so… I’ll get back to you on that.
My wife fondles me every night, doesn’t go down much. Her touching me is enough for me.
Maybe start jerking him off. Tell him you like to see it spurt out. Tell him you would like to see him shoot ropes.
Maybe get him to start going down on you as much as you go down on him
What do you mean, I’ve had one head ever since I was born.
Am I supposed to replace it at some point? Does it expire?
“I don’t mind” vs. “I enjoy it” are two totally different types of blowjobs.
Never… sadly. 😔
Whenever I have money to buy one and am feeling horny enough to do it
I’m in my 30s, my lady is in her 40s. Anytime we have sex (4-6 times a week) oral is part of foreplay. I always offer to do hers as well, but she only accepts it once or twice a week. If she goes down on me it warms me up for good sex. If I go down on her she cums and still wants sex, but a lot of the time she wants to save her orgasm for when I’m in her. She says she cums harder from orgasming once with me in her than from multiple orgasms through oral and penetrative sex. I wish she’d let me do it more often, but I’m not complaining.
2 times per week, married with a 3 year old.
Happened just 4-5 times before we were married. My wife was on the more conservative side of sex, but she’s come out of her shell and asks to do it now.
(Mind you, she never finishes the job, only 1 time, but she’ll do it as I play with her for a few minutes before going back to just wanting things done to her.)
Y’all getting head from your women? Damn what’s that like?
This thread didn’t go nearly how I expected and is making me sad.
Honestly, I’ve recently left a not great situationship where I got it on tap. She is excellent at it as well.
It’s good when the going is good. But, it doesn’t paper over the cracks in a rocky “real” relationship.
Not gonna lie, I’ll miss it.
Whenever I get desperate enough to pay for it. So like once every couple of months.
I have a regular call girl and she knows how I like it, so it’s more consistent than trying to pick up random at a bar.
Everyday, I lucked out and found one that loves giving head. Like Chris Rock said “ sucks it like she thinks the antidote is in there”.
I can get it almost whenever I ask as long as my timing is appropriate.
Whenever I want, my wife is sweet and unassuming but whew she is fun in bed.
As soon as we got married she turned into an ABC girl.
Anniversaries, Birthdays, and Coach purses.
You guys are getting head?
Sometimes she wants to blow me every day for a week. Sometimes she goes months without doing it
Insert titanic meme – “it’s been 84 years….”
You two are young people need to get in a better habit of safe sex and communication it’s every man’s dream to have oral that much a week but at some point where is the middle next month talk to him make boundaries everyone in a relationship needs to find a happy medium at some point you don’t seem to be having fun. Just find a balance
How is this a helpful thread? The answers will range from “once a day” to “never”. What do we learn?